There comes a point were being attractive just isn’t enough: you want to be attractive to the right kind of women. Whatever that “right kind of woman” is pretty much comes down to your own preferences, but by now you’ll probably have an idea of what you’d like, whether you’re interested in long-term relationships or just a short-term, casual bit of fun. In this article, we’ll provide you with practical tips on how to attract a woman.
How to Attract a Woman Tip # 1: Make ‘Em Laugh
It sounds shockingly basic, but the ability to amuse a potential partner is a huge asset. That’s not to say you have to pull a stand-up routine out of your backside every time you meet up with her, but being able to crack a few jokes- even if they don’t always land as well as you’d like them to- shows that you’ve got a sense of humor and don’t take yourself too seriously. Don’t try and manipulate your sense of humor to something that you think will be “acceptable” to her: just be open and don’t stress about being a one-man joke machine.
Tip # 2: Be a Conversationalist
As you get beyond the basic flurry of dates and people that make up dating in your twenties, you’ll find that being able to make good conversation is a vital part of both partners. Again, don’t feel like you have to be poring over newspapers and news channels so you can make sure you’re 100% educated on any current-affairs topic that might comeup. You must have interests of your own, and, if you’re passionate about something, it will show when you’re chatting. And who knows, you might find the model airplane enthusiast of your dreams.
Tip # 3: Make an Approach
I’ll admit that approaching women isn’t the easiest thing to do- and for goodness sake, don’t just stroll up to her with some compliment about the way she looks, because it’s unlikely to paint you in the best light unless you go about it very carefully. But having the confidence to strike up a conversation with a woman you like the look of- it’s worth talking about something relevant to your shared surroundings, so it doesn’t sound too random and so she can easily join in- is extremely attractive. And you can’t win the game if you don’t take risks.
Tip # 4: Lookin’ Fine
I think this goes for all dating, regardless of gender or age, but it bears repeating: make an effort, especially at the start of your relationship. Again, being a bronzed, buff love God isn’t a requirement, as if a lady has agreed to go on a date with you, it’s safe to assume she’s doesn’t find you completely repulsive, but making sure that you look the best that you can- whether it’s whacking on a nice suit or sticking on your good hair gel- will show that you’re keen to impress her. If you’re just going out for a couple of pints at a local bar, though? Lay off the full three-piece.
Tip # 5: Do Something Different
Whether it’s heading out to a restaurant that she mentioned liking or booking tickets to a movie she wanted to see, making a few gestures that show you’ve been listening to your potential new lady friend and are excited to try out some of her tastes is a good thing (and you can expect it back in kind). Go out of your way to do something outside of your comfort zone, and at the very least you’ll have another out-of-the-ordinary experience under your belt if nothing else.
If you’ve spent a lot of time thinking about how to attract a woman, the best advice we can give you is to relax. Don’t stress yourself out too strenuously, and don’t expect every date to be “The One”.